At present definition

Remember, love is a dying to self.

It means not talking when I feel needy, because it’s time to take on those monsters with solely God on my side. It is calling just to hear the sound of your voice, without this needing to hinge on making plans; it is taking great joy in the fact that I’m treated with the utmost respect, and to return the favor.

Love is letting you know how important you are through my actions without creating an ultimatum. It is about not fighting for time – recognizing we still have a very long way to go (collectively and individually).

It is choosing not to tell you I love you, when I know my heart isn’t in the right place. It is quietly letting you reveal yourself in the most unexpected of ways.

Love is about knowing, and the peace that comes from knowing.

1 John 4:18.